May 1987, I received the Central People39s Broadcasting Station, a half-hour lunch-time programEdit calls, I hope I can go to record a radio program. Because this is the first time to record radio programs, I am very nervous.
One person on the nervous,will go with my room. Side of the side of my urine speak with him.said that when urine Men do not speak the best of poor health, said that it was a special study to understand health of the priests told him. Since then, I have always maintained its determination not to speak when urinating habits. At 17 years of time, my urine at the time not spoken once. This has become my life rules. Sometimes think I feel funny,sentence in 1987 not yet known him at that time, has become one of my criteria for livelihood, we can see people on the health attention. In this 17 years, I really did not too, what disease, I am willing to attribute to urinate does not speak.
But the rules have been broken in recent. At the time I was forced to urinate spoken. And not at home, and forced to urinate when I speak or female.
It was at a restaurant for dinner, during which I went to toilet to urinate. At that time, my room where on a person. Urine half, I suddenly heard the female cleaner at the door shouting someone inside it? My people did not come in a cleaning! 17 years to develop the strength of the habit are enormous, I do not speak at first keep a stiff upper lip , but I soon realized that my own society should be subordinated to the rules of the game rules of the game, if I do not speak, she looked into my body, she should not watch the place, it is my rogue. I can only teeth and said someone. Her voice my perhaps too small, and one asked true someone? I can only confirm shouted It was true. After that my days are not all comfortable, while stomach pains, dizziness moment, it is suspected when urine speak what led to disease.
More popular all these years one word — rules of the game. The term social and life will be heavy and of a solemn easily. Individuals have personal rules of the game, units have the rules of the game unit, the state of the country has rules of the game, society has rules of the game in society, mankind has the human rules of the game. The highest in the rules of the game are legal. Life, must comply with the rules of the game, otherwise you will run into a wall 4, or even be eliminated.
That urine speak, I have a guilty conscience on to the Hospital for medical checkup. Doctor ask me to check what I said to check the prostate, I think this site should first check. When my plane the Air Force to repair hard, the teacher told us that encounter failures, starting with the most simple place to exclude. This sentence so that is good enough for me until now. Such as car horns do not ring, and absolutely should not-for-one up on the speakers, but should look at the fuses are not burned. Doctor is a woman, let me make the infrared thermal imaging inspection. She stood behind the apparatus, command me down, has been off to the knee. At that time, I thought, for fear of female cleaner look, leading to female doctors so watch female cleaners saw me, or if I can not Female Doctor saw, but a matter of course, that is, rules of the game. Of course, doctors can not let patients, you go look dental hospital, if the Doctor allows youinspection, why you? Still bound by the rules of the game at U.S. behavior.
The rules of the game everywhere.
Get along with husband and wife, the most basic rules of the game are a frank meeting. There is such a joke one for foreign spouses to celebrate golden wedding, the wife that they violated the rules of the game, her husband to be honest, I did not tell me you are color blind. One touched the husband, but also be honest I do not loyalty, I am black, I have been pretending to be white and you have lived so many years.
In reality people do not want the success of virtually non-existent. Why is it that some people succeed and some people do not succeed? Successful people have in common? Successful Prada UK people are not all comply with the rules of the game? Unsuccessful people do not comply with the rules of the game?
I have come across a number of successful people, I will of their people and less successful compared done found that successful people have been able to succeed, they are able to distinguish between true and false rules of the game, the true rules of the game, comply with their firm. As for the false rules of the game, successful people are not followed. Apart from less successful people really comply with the rules of the game, but also comply with the rules of the game leave, so prevent them to succeed.
Give you an example. Most people agree that the book on that is correct, or the authority that is correct, this has become to read the rules of the game. This is in fact false rules of the game. The rules of the game are true ways to write the opinion on the certificate is wrong. Such as the workplace and then the rules of the game who are devoted to their duties, such as messenger, like the Luo, do not ask why, do not ask how to do do is to immerse ourselves. Actually, this is a false rules of the game. Real rules are not blind loyalty, many ask why, and correct, execution, wrong, and put forward suggestions for improvement. Another example, the rules of the game business profits are above everything else and all the other way, this is also false rules. Real rules are social benefits and economic benefits simultaneously, if necessary, when the expense of economic interests, this will progress steadily, with popular saying that in order to sustainable development.
Other issues, such as the need to get a university degree to get success in life, such as only in order to study abroad, such as children in schools will focus only onare false rules of the game.
Strict compliance with the rules of the game really, and resolutely false in violation of the rules of the game, you will succeed